Cleave toxins from your life, people and chemicals

Safety gear required to pick up dead fish. Not good!

This may be a common concept for the 20%ers, however, it is our responsibility to help the other 80% to do the same.

How can we do this effectively?  How does one remove people from their life without guilt or remorse?  Why is it important for both parties?

We must walk the talk, demonstrate the BENEFITS and show why these are very positive actions in our life.  Lead through example, surround yourselves with people that motivate and inspire you.  The energy connecting you will attract more of the same, be it the good or the bad. Choose wisely.

Toxins do harm and no good that we can see.  The toxic people simple pollute your thoughts, words and actions.  That certainly gets in the way of your growth.  The toxic chemicals compromise your health, attitude and disrupt any chances of achieving balance.

Here are examples of toxic people.  Found these notes recently and I ‘think’ they are about a decade old.  Kudo’s to the Author, Life Coach Cheryl Richardson.

What happened to helping others in order to achieve?

Confront Your Toxic Relationships

The People

Some relationships constantly drain your energy, in both obvious and subtle ways. Several types of people will exhaust you or deter you from your path to living a fulfilled life. Life coach Cheryl Richardson describes six types of toxic qualities in people.

The Blamer
This person likes to hear his own voice. He constantly complains about what isn’t working in his life and yet gets energy from complaining and dumping his frustrations on you.

The Drainer
This is the needy person who calls to ask for your guidance, support, information, advice or whatever she needs to feel better in the moment. Because of her neediness, the conversation often revolves around her, and you can almost feel the life being sucked out of you during the conversation.

The Shamer
This person can be hazardous to your health. The shamer may cut you off, put you down, reprimand you, or make fun of your or your ideas in front of others. He often ignores your boundaries and may try to convince you that his criticism is for you own good. The shamer is the kind of person who makes you question your own sanity before his.

The Discounter
This is the person who discounts or challenges everything you say. Often, she has a strong need to be right and can find fault with any position. It can be exhausting to have a conversation with the discounter, so eventually you end up giving in and deciding to just listen.

The Gossip
This person avoids intimacy by talking about other behind their backs. The gossip gets energy from relaying stories, opinions, and the latest “scoop.” By gossiping about others, he creates a lack of safety in his relationships, whether he realizes it or not. After all, if he’ll talk about someone else, he’ll talk about you.

How many people do you have in your life holding you back? Do you believe they are holding you back or not?  Our perception and attitude dictate our thoughts, words and actions.  They also create the environment you will have to face.  Did you choose to be positive or negative. Do you choose to leave the toxins behind?  Do you understand and agree that once you do, you open a whole new world of possibilities?

With all these reasons to remove toxic people from your life, do you also recognize you have the power to choose the replacement of many products you use with non-toxic solutions?

If you think about all the effort you put into your foods and nutrition, insuring they are organic, locally grown and healthy for you, why don’t most people take it a step further?

Audit your own home for toxic chemicals vs. non-toxic. What's the %?

You are wearing clothes or slid between the sheets of fabrics washed most likely in very toxic chemicals. These chemicals are absorbed into your body and create more challenged health problems.

We cannot get away from them all, we are surrounded by toxic chemicals.  The air we breathe, the foods we eat, the clothes we wear and mostly, our thoughts.  Your choice to do more of the same or to change it.  If you need a push in the right direction, contact me.

Do the eco.nomics, take a deeper look into the toxins in your life and find alternatives that are safer, less expensive and work more effectively. What a concept!  It is easier that most people think.  However, most people presume, because of the messages they are fed through the media that going green has to cost them an arm and a leg.

If you would like to connect and discuss HOW TO convert to a non-toxic life, people and products, send a request through the comments below, or contact me directly through this forum.

Be good to yourselves, allow life to be easier, happier, healthier and better for those around you!

Create the positive energy you desire to receive.

(C) 2010 CSea Perkins.  All rights reserved.

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